perfectly imperfect.

lately i've been wondering a lot about why or how people can look at a person, and instantly judge them. i'm not going to lie to you guys, i have certainly done my fair share of hating on people because i thought they maybe weren't necessarily the most attractive, or the best dressed, or the nicest, or the smartest... you name it, i've probably talked about it, and you probably have too. said something about it, or thought it in your head. don't deny it. you have, everybody does, because that's how humans are. we are judgemental creatures, and it's our nature to make ourselves feel better by comparing ourselves to others. lately though, i've actually really thought a lot about how a person can take just one quick glance at someone, and decide whether they're worth talking to or getting to know. for example, a guy will like a girl, but the girl won't even give the guy the time of day because he doesn't have chisled abs, or bulging biceps. or maybe he just really isn't all that attractive. same thing goes for guys with girls. in my experience, most (NOT ALL) guys seem to gravitate towards the girls that wear skin tight clothes and push up bras to show off their otherwise almost non-existent boobs. i mean honestly, how often do you see a guy saying "damn... that girl has nice big EYES". it just doesn't happen. also, another thing i don't understand... is why people who are not like "you" are automatically "weird". NEWSFLASH. everyone is different in their own way, whether they like to go out and party all the time, or they get their kicks by sitting at home on a friday night watching movies by themselves. whether they like to dress in all black, or they wear ONLY what they can find on a hollister shelf or rack. (and in case you didn't notice... those sentences rhymed, unintentionally. i earned my gold star for the day. heck YESSSSSS.) maybe i'm really the only person i know of that doesn't judge people by what they look like. i'm not going to deny somebody the opportunity they deserve to be my friend just because they're fat, or ugly, or poorly dressed, or mentally or physically disabled. it absolutely INFURIATES me when i hear of someone telling me that a certain person isn't the kind of person i should start liking because they're not what i need in a boyfriend, or a friend or whatever. i can't even explain how much it angers me. especially when it is someone i consider myself to be close with. it is always disappointing when you find out that your closest friends or family members are judging your friends. i guess i don't anymore because i realized that it really doesn't matter. AT ALL. just because you're pretty or hot doesn't mean i want to be your friend. getting to know people is my favorite thing to do, i just love learning about other people and the way they think and what they think of certain things. i honestly couldn't care less how a person looks, or what they do in their free time, or if they're rich or poor, or smart or stupid or whatever. it just kills me to think that that's all that matters to some people... i'll take inner beauty over outer ANY DAY. and i would hope that all my friends are that way too. so this post is probably pretty "ranty" and redundant. i probably repeated myself a bajillion and two times, but did i get my point across? good. don't ever forget that whoever you are, boy or girl, white, black, asian, hispanic, fat, skinny, gorgeous, ugly, emo, preppy, whatever you are, you are beautiful just the way you are, and you are worth more than you will ever know. RANT=OVER. until next time... peace out. :)